one little lie leads to others. more and more pile up. somebody lied to me in this way. somebody close to me.
and she kept lying to me because she was afraid to tell the truth, that she lied in the first place. but after so long, the lies piled up, fabricating a whole life, that was a lie. and for a year, i believed this lie, i mean, your best friend wouldnt lie to you like that…well she did.
i found out one day. through my observational skills. i tend to remember what i tell and dont tell to certain people. a “person” knew about things that i didnt hell him about. and so then it all unraveled, her terribly complex web of a lie that she had been telling me for a year. and i couldnt take it anymore. so after a long while of mulling it over, i left.
so some advice out there to all of you:
lying is never the right thing to do. i dont care if it is a lie to make somebody feel good, because in the end, it only hurts people more than in the first place. and if you have ever lied, tell them you did. maybe it will hurt them. but its always better to tell them yourself, than to let them find out on their own, or much later.
so dont lie. its no good. no good at all.